a true pussy talk, because i reveal pretty much everything about my previously extremely tight vagina and how it affected (not only) my sex life.
BLOG/ACCESSIBILITY | making the online accessible
tips & tricks on how to make your website and social media accessible!
BLOG/MENTAL HEALTH | anxiety and (disordered) eating
stop asking if mentally ill people eat “healthy” and rather ask if they eat at all.
VISUALS | pretty in pink
VISUALS | pink drink
VISUALS | go fuck yourself
BLOG/MENTAL HEALTH | therapy shouldn’t be a luxury
“therapy shouldn’t be a luxury” has become somewhat of a signature quote of mine, but i’ve realized i’ve never fully explained what i really mean by saying it. let me fix that now!
BLOG/GENDER | feminist book club
in need of a feminist book fix? here you go!
BLOG/SEX | the ultimate sex tip
there is no best, or hottest, or right or wrong technique for anything.
there is no ultimate sex tip, apart from: COMMUNICATE!
BLOG/SEX | establishing consent
there is a lot of talk about consent in sex, which is great – but how do you actually establish consent during a sexual interaction?
VISUALS | peaches and cream
VISUALS | the last supper
VISUALS | sexposi sexedu
BLOG/SEX | end the orgasm quest
hell yeah, i love orgasms. but i do think they’re incredibly overrated in our society, leading to uncomfortable situations during sex, stigma, shame, and a lot more.
BLOG/MENTAL HEALTH | mental illness benchmarking
due to the fact that the mental illness discussion has been frowned upon for so long, a lot of mystification surrounds how each mental illness actually influences those suffering from it.
VISUALS | side table
VISUALS | cups
BLOG/GENDER | queering up the everyday
how can you, as an individual, practice your queer and feminist beliefs and, so to say, get them out there? how to turn the theory into, at least some form of, activism?
BLOG/WORDS | five (vegan) years
a reflection on the reality of being a vegan.
BLOG/SEX | sex is not a contest
instead of focusing on whether the sexual activity feels good, we focus on whether we are good at it, which takes out all of the fun off of it, doesn’t it?
BLOG/MENTAL HEALTH | what i’ve learnt from my mental illness
while i usually focus on the negative sides of living with a mental illness, today i want to focus on the things those years of dealing with depression and anxiety taught me.
VISUALS | Kink: Desire
BLOG/MENTAL HEALTH | self-care
today, i want to talk about self-care in its purest form, its essential meaning – taking a step back and doing something that makes you feel good.
ANALOG | 2018
BLOG/SEX | all sex talk but no “real sex”
working, talking, capturing sexuality = having a lot of sex? oh come on!
VISUALS | no penetration
BLOG/LUV | that’s not romantic, that’s fucked up
love shouldn’t be about control or possession, but about compassion and mutual respect.
BLOG/GENDER | open queer library
i’m sick of information being available only to those who are approved by the academic circle, which is why i’ve set up a lil online open queer library for anyone interested
BLOG/WORDS | screw your language elitism
hold on before you call out someone on how they phrased something or laugh about their accent. your language snobbery is oppressive and discriminating, so please stop.
BLOG/SEX | STDs are normal, the end.
you’re not better if you’ve never had one, you’re not worse if you’ve had.