a true pussy talk, because i reveal pretty much everything about my previously extremely tight vagina and how it affected (not only) my sex life.
there is no best, or hottest, or right or wrong technique for anything.
there is no ultimate sex tip, apart from: COMMUNICATE!
instead of focusing on whether the sexual activity feels good, we focus on whether we are good at it, which takes out all of the fun off of it, doesn’t it?
working, talking, capturing sexuality = having a lot of sex? oh come on!
you’re not better if you’ve never had one, you’re not worse if you’ve had.
i’ve talked about my love/hate relationship with menstrual cups over and over again but i’ve never really fully shared my personal experience with them, have i?
sure, cups are an awesome invention helping the planet, your wallet and your own vaginal health all at once, but perhaps they’re not for everyone.
we’re told to use menstrual cups but our physical (dis)abilities, religious views, or personal beliefs are overlooked. we’re told to opt for natural, non-toxic products but our budgets or access to those items are not taken into account.
even though it seems like we’re experiencing a sex revolution of sorts, what’s really being liberated is mostly “sex with someone”, and not “sex with oneself”.
being pro-sex, or “sexually liberated” as many like to call themselves, does not mean you are enlightened and entitled to judge anyone who does not practice the same lifestyle as you.
the taboo surrounding talking about menstruation is definitely loosening up, which is absolutely great, but i would still like to address a somewhat problematic issue related to it.
those who have been shamed for being promiscuous now shame those who aren’t like that, which, in the end, leads nowhere near liberation as it simply creates another way of oppression.
a very brief summary of important info about the most common STDs, just for you, from me.
“yes” to sex does not mean “yes” to everything.